Kids don’t come with manuels…Didn’t you know that?

I haven’t blogged in awhile due to the fact that I have been busy working on my invention, but I had to write about this! Many of you know from reading my blog, that I love kids and it bothers me to see anyone hurting a child rather it be physical or mental. Children are so precious. There are so many parents seeking to adopt that right child, but in my opinion there is no “Right Child!”

I read a story the other day about an American family returning a Russian boy back to the orphanage in Russia because of his behavior.

Now I don’t dispute the boys behavior but what I think was wrong is that the Russian orphanage should have share more medical and behavior information with this family. The family could have reached out to a child psychologist to have him evaluated. This would have given them insight to the boys past history.

It sounded like before this child even reached the American family he had deep issues that should have been addressed long before he went to anyone. I’m not mad at this family by no means but I am a little upset about how they returned him.

They returned him back with know concern about how this would effect him or the orphanage, better yet they return him like he was a product or something.

Do you know how many times I wish my kids had come with an instruction manual?? lol lol But they didn’t. We had to learn on our own how to deal with our kids without having the option of saying…I Don’t Want Them!

I say, don’t be so eagered to push your kid away. Seek to find the cause and then the solutions to help them live a healthier life. We have so many resources available to help many families.

Remember “Kids Need Love Too” ~Hug them~Squeeze them~Kiss them~Love them….you never know,they might try and give us PARENTS back too.

LOL ~Smile~

 

A CaringMom

LisaLisa

My name is Lisa and my husband Carl, and I are the owners of the Night Helper Blog. We have been married for over 30 years and we have three awesome children, plus four adorable very active grandkids. From time to time they too are contributors to the Night Helper Blog. We enjoy reading, listening to music, entertaining, travel, movies and of course blogging. The Night Helper blog was created in 2008. Since then we have been blessed to partner with many well-known Brands like Best Buy, Fisher Price, Toys "R" US., Hasbro, Disney, Teleflora, ClearCorrect, Radio Shack, VTech, KIA Motor, MAZDA and many other great brands.

14 thoughts on “Kids don’t come with manuels…Didn’t you know that?

  • May 7, 2010 at 5:18 am
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  • May 2, 2010 at 4:10 am
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    how do u do?……………………………………………………….

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  • April 29, 2010 at 5:49 am
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    That is so sad 🙁

    BTW this is Not So Average Mama

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  • April 28, 2010 at 3:22 pm
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    This story burned me up inside. I’m not saying the child didn’t have psychological issues, but those parents did not do the right thing. So sad!

    Thanks for stopping by on my special SITS day.

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  • April 27, 2010 at 3:21 pm
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    Popped in from SITS to say hi! I heard about that woman. Isn’t that terrible?

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  • April 26, 2010 at 6:25 pm
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    Nice Post~!!!. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

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  • April 26, 2010 at 9:34 pm
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    So glad I came across your comment on my blog! Found yours and can’t wait to read your posts! I’m with you, wouldn’t it be so much easier if we had instruction manuals?!

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  • April 26, 2010 at 6:30 pm
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    凡走過必留下痕跡!不留言對不起你!…………………….

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  • April 25, 2010 at 12:00 am
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    Poor little guy. I don’t know the full story, but it seems a little harsh to me…do they really want a child and everything that entails? Or do they just want the bragging rights of having one?

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  • April 23, 2010 at 12:29 am
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    Hi, I agree with you. More information should be released to the perspective parents. It’s really sad on both the child and the parents. Hope we all learn from this and it never happends again.

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  • April 22, 2010 at 11:40 am
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    Just came from SITS to say hi.

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  • April 20, 2010 at 1:22 pm
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    How I wish mine come with the instruction manual too! 😀 Great post and yes it is so sad about what happened to the poor kid. You’re spot on about him being treated like a product or an unfitted gloved being returned to the store.

    Happy SITS Tuesday!

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  • April 20, 2010 at 6:51 am
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    This is such a sad story filled with so many errors. MY cousin adopted a girl from U.S. and she had serious attachment issues and still does, but they love her and do the best they can. If kiddos came with instruction manuals, would we even read them?

    Thanks for stopping by on my SITS Day.

    Holly
    504 Main

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  • April 19, 2010 at 6:03 am
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    志不立,天下無可成之事。………………………………………………

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