Everyday I hear many moms say their children are always angry and everyday day I ask them do they know why. Every child is different and reacts to every situation differently. The first thing we as parents need to do is find the root of the anger. Yes, there’s a root to everything. Children are not born angry when they come into this world.You see them smile, laugh , cry and express their emotions.
If you are a parent who is struggling with an angry child. Don’t worry there are ways to help calm your children’s anger and hopefully help him/ her out grow it completely. As parents we can’t become frustrated or angry for it’s not a good example to set nor a good tone for the children. If our children see the frustration and anger that we share, it opens the door for the child to become more angry and now becoming destructive leading sometimes in to their adulthood.We now have a serious concern!
Here are a few tips to assist your children with anger:
1) Make sure you as the parent is setting a good and healthy anger environment, no explosions, no yelling.
2) Walk away from the child when you see the anger and negativity come out. It’s much better to walk away then to waste energy to their angery behavior.
3) If child become more violent as he/ she grows older, then you know it’s time to really seek professional anger reduction programs!
When your children are constantly angry, this unhealthy anger can and will steal your child’s happiness.
Take control today to embrace your child’s anger and help them become the child you wish to see succeed!